|
Conventional
Therapy
tends toward...
|
Personal
Coaching
tends toward... |
|
personal
strengthening
|
personal
evolution |
|
triage
|
visioning |
|
issue
resolution
|
problem
solving |
|
why
me?/why this?
|
what's
next?/what now? |
|
overcoming
obstacles
|
sustainable
flow |
|
traditional
relationship
|
collaborative,
equal partnership |
|
unconscious>conscious
level
|
conscious>consciousness
level |
|
away
from
|
toward |
|
looks
backward
|
focuses
forward |
|
raising
standards
|
raising
standards |
|
somewhat
vulnerable
|
generally
open, not vulnerable |
|
cognitive/behavior
patterns
|
actively
building |
|
letting
go
|
life
dynamics |
|
needs
help
|
wants
a partner |
|
pain
|
frustration |
|
past
> present
|
present
> future |
|
needs,
wants
|
needs,
wants |
|
issue
resolution
|
life
design |
|
driven
by unresolved issues
|
chooses
goals and actions |
|
absorbs
information
|
acts
on information |
|
feelings,
discussion oriented
|
more
action oriented |
|
self
understanding
|
self
potential |
|
nurturing,
supportive
|
catalyzing,
challenging |
|
asks
why
|
asks
what |
|
disruptive
situations
|
tolerations |
|
usually
a measured pace
|
often
a rapid pace |
|
no
personal disclosure
|
personal
disclosure as usefu |
|
patient/client
|
client |
|
medical
model
|
performance
model |
|
treatment
|
co
creation |
|
healing
|
achievement |
|
presented
complaints
|
common
situations |
|
mostly
monologue
|
mostly
dialogue |
|
progress
|
performance |
|
was
then
|
is
now |
|
professional
'arms length'
|
close,
collaborative |
|
behavior
norms
|
uniqueness |
|
analysis/understanding
|
possibility |
|
pathology
|
experimentation/discovery |
|
hope
|
inspiration |
|
self
concept
|
self
discovery |
|
integration
|
manifestation |
|
diagnosis
|
self
assessment |
|
support
|
support,
solutions |
|
prognosis
for recovery
|
chance
of success |
|
diagnosable
conditions
|
everyday
situations |
|
anxiety
|
n/a |
|
depression
|
n/a |
|
trauma
|
n/a |
|
emotional
scars
|
n/a |
|
addictions
|
n/a |
|
compulsions
|
n/a |
|
emotional
issues
|
n/a |
|
neuroses
|
n/a |
|
psychoses
|
n/a |
|
healing
of emotional damage
|
n/a |
|
history
|
related
experiences |
|
self
imposed limits
|
missed
opportunities |
|
acceptance
|
flow |
|
conflicts
|
paradoxes |
|
reality
|
paradigms |
|
restoring
|
expanding |
|
healing
|
evolving |
|
coping/protective
mechanisms
|
building
reserves |
|
beliefs
|
personal
operating system |
|
self
responsibility
|
accountability |
|
stabilize
|
balance |
|
new
perspective
|
new
approach |
|
confidential
|
confidential |
|
family
dynamics
|
organizational
dynamics |
|
hurts
|
works |
|
personal
dynamics
|
personal
style |
|
weaknesses
|
strengths |
|
problems
|
solutions |
|
tends
toward process
|
tends
toward results |
|
heal
past
|
create
future |
|
medical
model
|
performance/growth
model |
|
behavior
awareness
|
personal
awareness |
|
complaints
|
tolerations |
|
reactions
|
responses |
|
restoration
|
enhancement |
|
undoing
|
doing |
|
dysfunctional>functional
|
functional>extraordinary |
|
focused
scope
|
unlimited
scope |
|
fear
|
excitement |
